Being alone is not easy. I mean, sometimes in our lives, we are all alone but there must be a point in life when we finally meet the person who is perfect to be with us.

My life has been filled with problems, but now that I have finally met her, I can forget everything that has gone wrong in my life.

To give you context I will explain a few things about who I am, and how my life has been. My name is Matt and I just finished high school. And if you ask anyone who studied with me, all of them will tell you that I wasn't the luckiest boy; all the opposite in fact.

I was like that cartoon character of the 90s' TV show "Hey Arnold", Eugene. Well, maybe I'm exaggerating but I didn't have much luck. Every time that I tried to do something, I don't know why but something happened and screwed it all. My romantic life wasn't different. First of all, I was too shy, so speaking to a beautiful girl was such a challenge and most of the times, I just gave up. But sometimes it was even worse. I made up of braveness and spoke to a girl; she was beautiful and funny; so we started to talk but then, when I asked her out to have some coffee or lunch, she said no because she had a boyfriend. I was upset but mostly sad. So, I just gave up and never tried to get a girl, at least during high school. I just wanted high school to finish.

Finally, I graduated and I left all those bad times behind. At least that was what I thought. After finishing high school, I didn't know what to do. I didn't want to study at the university immediately, but neither to stay every day at home without doing anything. So I started to search for a job. As I was young and didn't have the extreme need to work, I was looking for something that could be interesting for me and give me reasons to work, besides the money. And that's how I spent three months without working. Finally, I found a job. But my reasons for choosing it weren't the same that I previously mentioned. I mean, it was an interesting job but the main reason was the girl who worked there. Her name is Jen. I got lost in her eyes the first time I saw her. She was incredibly beautiful, charismatic and nice. When I first saw her I immediately fell in love.

Obviously, I wasn't sure about what to do. As I said before, I haven't had much luck with girls during my life, so my expectations weren't the best. But I knew that I had to do something to catch her attention and to establish a friendly relation with her.

And suddenly, when I was looking at her, she looked at me back. Now that I'm thinking about it, at that moment, she should have said: "Nice to meet you, I'm your other half". She is the best thing that could have happened to me. 

When we looked at each other, I was convinced that she was THE girl. We started a friendly relationship; first as coworkers, then as friends, and finally as what we are now.

Now that I have finally found her I wonder how I could survive in a world without her. I mean, she really is the best thing that has happened to me and probably she would agree that this is the best thing that has happened to both of us.

Everything has changed now: I have a good work, I found the perfect girl, and I'm really grateful for what life has given to me. Now my biggest concern is to make her life as good as she has made mine. And I will give everything to make her happy.

It has been difficult because as I told you before, she is too perfect. She is obviously out of my league, but for some reason, that I can't understand, she has chosen me, instead of any other guy.

Our relationship has evolved and now we have a very good communication and understanding of each other. It is as if we were made to complement each other's lives.

I have talked to some friends about this and they can't believe how my life has changed. They are always saying that I don't deserve her, and I have to confess that I agree with them. How is it possible that a girl like Jen could fall in love with a guy like me?! I can't understand it, but I just enjoy it.

Now I can say that I'm not Eugene anymore. I have found the perfect girl so my luck must have changed too. I'm sure my life will get better with the pass of time; even though I've never dreamed of this. I will make everything to keep it like this and change my life from now on. I'm pretty sure she is the girl I want to spend the rest of my life and start a family with.

This is just a proof that life can always change for good, even if those changes mean a complete turn. No matter how cruel life can be or how lonely someone can feel, life will always make things work as they are supposed to, and there is someone for everyone.

Thanks to Jen my life has completely changed. People who know me have told me that I have changed; that now I seem to be happier and nicer. And I guess, that is just an effect of her influence in my life, and I'm so happy about it.

And if someone asks: this is the best thing! And, I think she would agree, the best thing is that is happening to her and me.